I haven’t been to many funerals. Maybe two. Ever. But recently I was called upon to arrange my own father’s funeral. I had no idea what I was doing or what should happen or how.

Fortunately, there were people around me who did know. (Unfortunately for them, they had experienced many funerals.) When meeting with the pastor of my parents’ church, he recommended we select a hymn that my dad would appreciate.

It seemed to me, a hymn for a funeral should be a somber, contemplative song. But for some reason, a different kind of hymn kept popping into my head. The hymn, “In My Heart There Rings a Melody” is a joyful boisterous song. I kept picturing my dad leading our congregation in singing this song, which he did often when I was a child.

So I added that song to the service. As the day approached I kept wondering whether I had chosen poorly. Would it feel inappropriate?

When we all sang that song during my father’s funeral service, the joy of it brought tears to my eyes. I could see my dad smiling and singing with all his heart, and loving every minute of it.

“Rejoice always, pray constantly, give thanks in everything; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” ‭‭(1 Thessalonians‬ ‭5‬:‭16‬-‭18,‬ ‭CSB)‬‬

Although I miss my dad, there is nothing to be sad about with his passing. He would want me to rejoice always, even at his funeral.

God wants us to be always filled with joy and gratitude for His love and His promise of a beautiful eternity spent with Him.

Dear God, thank you for the hope I have because of your gracious salvation. I’m so glad death is not the end for those who put their faith in you. It is only the beginning of a beautiful and perfect new life. In my heart there rings a melody of love today.