As an introvert, all social gatherings are trying. Parties, conferences, luncheons… I struggle to relax and enjoy any event where people, especially strangers, will be getting together and chatting.

The dread is mitigated when a good friend will be there to introduce me around and rescue me from bad conversations and uncomfortable situations.

But I’ve gone to parties with friends who didn’t do those things for me. That’s even worse. When I go to an event and my trusted friend ditches me the moment we step in the door, I feel abandoned and betrayed, on top of the typical social anxiety.

Do I treat Jesus that way?

I was at a Super Bowl party when a commercial came on for Jesus, believe it or not. It was part of the “He Gets Us” campaign. Jesus had arrived at the party. But I didn’t say anything to welcome Him. I continued whatever conversation I had been having. I was a terrible friend.

“The next day John saw Jesus coming toward him and said, ‘Look, the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world!’” (John‬ ‭1‬:‭29,‬ ‭CSB‬‬)

John the Baptist was the kind of friend Jesus wants. Someone who welcomes Him exuberantly and introduces Him to all his friends.

I want to be more like John. When Jesus makes the effort to show up at my party, however He chooses to do it, I want to be the friend who welcomes Him in and introduces Him around.

Dear God, thank you for being such a good friend to me. Please forgive me for often ignoring the opportunities you have given me to introduce you to my friends. Open my eyes to the next opportunity whenever and however it arises. Give me courage and boldness to display my love for and trust in you.