In the Bible, the word “brothers” is used frequently. And it doesn’t always mean literal siblings. Sometimes it does, but often it refers to other close relationships where the people involved have something fundamental in common. For example, followers of Jesus are often referred to as brothers. And sisters.

Why is “brother” used instead of friend, compatriot, fellow disciple, or ally?

When you grow up with someone, as siblings do, you experience almost all of the same things. The same rules, the same foods, the same environment, the same schools, influences, authorities, and dangers. You have the same poverty or wealth. You learn the same lessons and speak the same language with the same accent, inflection, and vocabulary. You may not always react the same way to these influences, but you can relate.

Because of the shared experience of siblings, a deep understanding exists that only arises in other relationships after many hours of explanation, discussion, and mutual contemplation. This understanding can lead to great compassion and loving support in healthy relationships. That is the beauty of brothers and sisters.

Followers of Christ are called brothers and sisters because we have something even more fundamental in common. Instead of a shared past, our futures are solidly linked. Our beliefs, goals, priorities, and values come from our new Father, God.

“A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a difficult time.” (Proverbs‬ ‭17‬:‭17,‬ ‭CSB‬‬)

As a follower of Jesus, I am commanded to love all God’s children, including my enemies. But I have also been given a special bond with my brothers and sisters in Christ. I am to support them in difficult times, encourage them in their faith, and have compassion on them with the understanding of a sibling.

Dear God, thank you for the sisters and brother you have gifted me with. I cherish the bonds we have. Thank you also for the family you have adopted me into where I have a whole slew of new siblings. Remind me to treat them as such with understanding and support.